GET YOUR SONÂ ON THE FIELDÂ BEFORE HE QUITS.
A clear, parent-led system to help your son earn playing time, grow in confidence, and stay in football long enough to reach his potential.
IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY.
Your son works hard. Shows up. Tries to stay positive. But game day keeps ending the same way—he never left the sideline.
Maybe you’ve considered:
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Hiring a trainer
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Changing teams
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Looking into private schools
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Spending money on camps and travel squads
All in the hope that your son gets a fair a shot at playing before his confidence is shot.
Years ago, I was like your son: a B-team backup.
My seventh grade coach said I was "slow, awkward, uncoordinated, and would never make varsity".
Even though I had 5 more years to develop.
I eventually made it to the NFL so he was about as wrong as humanly possible.
But the truth is... it wasn't talent that got me there.
It was passion, mindset, and building great habits around the little details that coaches love and most players (and parents) overlook.
That journey taught me what matters.
And now, I've turned it into a system your family can use—without burning through your savings or burning out your son.
If your kid has the heart to play, there's a path to help him grow into the kind of player coaches trust.
Let's build that path together.
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WHAT'S INSIDE THE COURSE
A proven system that helps your son earn more playing time by mastering what actually matters—developing the mindset, habits, and structure to grow into a player coaches trust.
SECTION 1: THE FOUNDATION
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Why earning playing time is more possible (and affordable) than you think
- The “Bench Doesn’t Mean Broken” mindset that changes everything
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 A real plan that works with your family’s values and budget
SECTION 2: TIME FOR A MINDSET SHIFT
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How to get (and actually use) feedback to improve fast
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What it really means to want this life—and what it costs
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The role of faith and belief when effort isn’t enough
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How to shift from excuses to ownership in your athlete’s heart
SECTION 3: CONTROL THE CONTROLLABLE
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How to compete without comparing
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What coaches notice more than talent
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The core physical, mental, and skill habits that build consistency
- How to hustle with intention, not desperation
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Why “shortcuts” (like $200 trainer sessions) don’t deliver
SECTION 4: IMPRESS PEOPLE WITH THE LITTLE THINGS
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How to stand out to coaches, teammates, teachers, and parents
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 Why consistency in “unseen” areas makes playing time inevitable
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How to lead yourself (and your family) with quiet confidence
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- You’re tired of watching your son lose confidence while others get the reps, the attention, and the fun of the game
- You’ve considered hiring a private trainer, switching schools, or joining a travel team—but it all feels expensive, political, or just out of reach
- You want to support your son—but not by babying him, burning out your schedule, or handing over leadership to someone else
- You believe in hard work, real feedback, and building something that lasts
- You want your son to grow in confidence, discipline, and faith—even if he never plays at the next level
WHYÂ I KNOW THIS WORKS
People have counted me out my entire life. I wasn’t good enough to make the A-team in junior high. I was told I’d never make varsity. A college strength coach said I’d never bench 300 pounds. I benched 405—twice.
I wasn’t featured in the university’s marketing materials. I wasn’t a “guy to watch.” I wasn’t invited to the combine. But on pro day, I worked out next to a guy who would go 4th overall—and a bunch of coaches noticed me.
Heading into the NFL, the University of Florida scouting report called me “average at best.” Said I wasn’t good enough to make a roster. I made three. And I made two of them after being cut three times in a row—where the exit paperwork literally said I wasn’t good enough.
When I retired and decided to go to law school, a "friend" told me I wasn’t smart enough to be a lawyer. That I was more suited for “something with my hands—like breaking rocks.”Â
I got into law school. Then I was told the economy was terrible and I’d never get hired by a big firm. I worked at two Am Law 100 firms.
As a second-year lawyer, I helped a startup win a highly favorable settlement against one of the biggest trademark bullies in the world. No one at my firm wanted that David v. Goliath type fight, but our client did and he was rewarded for his trust in me.
Over and over, people told me what I couldn’t do. And over and over, they were wrong.
But that doesn’t mean I’ve always gotten it right. I’ve been wrong. I’ve made bad decisions. I’ve fallen on my face. What I’ve learned to do is own the lesson, make the adjustment, and move forward with more clarity.
That’s the same thing I want to teach you—and your son—through this course.
So, why should you trust me, a mostly unknown guy who’ll likely stay unknown to the people who already think they know everything?
Because through being rejected, overlooked, and underestimated I’ve been able to be led by my faith, leverage my mind, and push my body to do things no one around me thought were possible.
If your son is constantly left to watch from the sideline, he needs to learn to do the same. He doesn’t need hype. He doesn’t need a pity party. He needs you to help him see a path forward and walk it with courage.
Twenty years from now, I want him to have a trail behind him—lined with stories of his growth, his grit, and confirmation of the correctness of his belief in what’s possible.
And I’d be honored to play a small role in the origin of those stories.
WHAT CHANGESÂ SHOULD YOU EXPECT?
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Your son doesn’t just start earning more playing time.
He starts carrying himself differently.
He listens differently.
He walks into each practice knowing why he’s there—and how to grow through it.
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He stops comparing himself to everyone else.
He stops blaming coaches, teammates, or politics.
And he starts taking ownership of the small things that actually lead to bigger opportunities.
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You’ll see more confidence. More composure. More coachability.
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And you’ll feel the shift too:
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Less frustration
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Fewer car rides home filled with silence or tears
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More moments of connection and clarity as a parent
Because when you lead your athlete with structure, belief, and consistency—they grow into the kind of player coaches trust, teammates follow, and parents are proud of.
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This course isn’t just about getting off the bench.
It’s about building the kind of mindset, work ethic, and identity your son will carry far beyond the field.
WHAT HAPPENS IF NOTHING CHANGES?
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Well, nothing will change and you will miss a limited opportunity for adventure and spectacular growth.
It's that simple.
Many people are okay with that.
Whether you test my methods go with someone else, I hope you choose a different and proven path that works for kids who are not already considered elite or high potential.
"Life is not tried it is merely survived if you're standing outside the fire."Â
—Garth Brooks
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Don't sit this one out.
START NOW AND CHANGE THE STORY
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You’re here because your son is working for something real.
And whether he knows it yet or not—he needs you in his corner with a plan, not just encouragement.
This course won’t do the work for him. And it won’t make things easy. But it will give you both the structure, mindset, and leadership edge most families never figure out until it’s too late.
If your son wants more playing time, more confidence, and more consistency, the first move is yours.
Lead now—before fear, frustration, or false beliefs steal another season.Â
You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be the kind of parent who says,
“We don’t quit. We adjust and come back stronger.”Â
Hit the button. Start the course.
And let’s change the trajectory—together.
IÂ can attest to this man being an absolute UNIT. One of the toughest men I've ever shared the field with.Â
____Â Peter Simes, University of Texas Rugby