
I'm Otis
Stop letting fear steal from your family, friendships, and fitness.
They say the chaos is normal. I help you prove it's a lie.
Fear said I'd never play in the NFL, make it at a big law firm, or raise kids who eat real food, sleep through the night, and don't throw tantrums to get their way.
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Those fears usually started as words from the people closest to me—and turned into persistent thoughts. Some of those thoughts led me down a self-destructive path.
As a lawyer, part of my job was to be known in the city among “successful” people. I worked during the day, drank at happy hours and evening events, and burned both ends of the candle trying to prove I was smart and more than a former professional football player.
I was afraid to start a family because most of my time was spent supporting other people’s goals in exchange for money and status. I ruined my marriage. Then I bounced from one relationship to the next, afraid to sit with myself long enough to heal.
At 37, I feared I had a neurodegenerative disease from football. I couldn’t focus. I’d forget things I just read. It destroyed my confidence and made practicing law almost impossible. I kept it all to myself—until I was fired for not being able to perform.
On the outside, I looked polished. On the inside, I was falling apart.
Years ago, I would’ve never shared any of this. But I’ve learned that faith in God, and a real relationship with Him, is the most powerful force for change there is.Â
When I finally stopped pretending and truly submitted to God’s will—not for show—He started showing up in ways that blew my mind. And whenever I forgot and started thinking it was all me, I got humbled. Fast.

Here are just a few things that have happened since then:
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My mind is fully restored—no more focus or memory issues.
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My wife, once a non-believer, came to know Jesus.
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Her chronic and "incurable" health condition disappeared.
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Our kids are thriving—physically, mentally, and spiritually.
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They sleep through the night, eat real food, and people gush over their behavior and energy.
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Financial resources and opportunities literally find us.
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Our perfect home sat on the market for months until the price aligned with our budget and timing.
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We’ve both had powerful supernatural experiences of peace and healing—real, physical moments that can only be explained by the power of God.
I know not everyone will believe this. Some will even be offended. I've seen it happen.
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That’s why I hesitated to share for so long. But hiding what God has done in my life out of fear is the exact kind of compromise I refuse to keep making.
When I told a lawyer at a Dolphins reunion about this mission, he asked, "But what's the market for what you're doing?"Â
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I told him I didn’t know. It might be tiny. But this isn’t about a market—it’s about a calling. For 20 years, God’s been telling me to do this. And I’ve learned that my best life is directly tied to walking the path He put in front of me.
So regardless of how big the audience is, I'm going to do my best to help people.
Every negative expectation—based on stats, past failures, or someone else’s story—is fear’s way of getting you to accept losing before the game even begins. If you plan to fail, you will.
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Forget the odds. Forget the stats. Forget being “realistic.”
Let me help guide you down the narrow path—where your family chooses discomfort on purpose and grows stronger every time. From the outside, it might look effortless. But inside, your family’s success will be built on daily discipline, faith, and the refusal to let fear lead.
And when people see it, they’ll want what you have—badly enough to change for it.
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